Due to my current substitute teaching employment situation, I am constantly meeting many new people each day. By the end of a day in which I've subbed in music, sometimes I've had about 90-100 students come in and out of my classroom in one day. When I sub in a general classroom, I have the students names down by the time lunch comes around, but it is on my drive back home that I begin to think about what each of their stories are. For I only get to be with them for 8 hours of one day--out of their life.
Think about how much and how little has happened in your life up to this point and has shaped who you are as a person. If we pass someone in the street, we probably could never even begin to guess their story...but the thing is is that their story isn't stopping the moment they leave our classroom or the moment they are past you are on the sidewalk.
Along those lines is a story about one of my friends. She was heading home on the interstate for the weekend when due to a semi crash, all lanes of traffic were completely stopped. Not only stopped for a few minutes, but at least 2 hours! She was supposed to meet her husband at 5:00 and when she was still stuck on the interstate at 6:00, she knew he would be getting worried. The problem was that her cell phone had died an hour into the trip and she had no way of connecting with him. She saw another single woman sitting in the other lane in her car. So being pretty gutsy, Mel decided to actually get out of her car and ask to borrow the woman's cell phone in order to call her husband. Believe it or not, the other woman was supposed to meet her husband as well and was stuck in the crash traffic obviously. I just found that story so interesting because as we drive on the busy streets with tons of people, we never stop to think about their story and how it might be very similar to our own.
I read a really good article recently called
All We Have Are Stories by Hal Green. I'm trying to find the link to post on here, but for now I just wanted to share a few paragraphs from the article. Hopefully it gets your mind going as well, because it did mine!
To live a life is to play a role, hopefully the protagonist, in our very own most personal story, drama, comedy, play - call it what you will.
There are doubtless as many stories out there as there are variations of musical melodies, of which there shall never be an end.
So, which melody should or could be determined as not essential to the wondrous whole of music? None; they are all essential, and there forever, whether someone has yet heard them or not.
Even in the final book of the Bible, the book of "Revelation," it is said that the heavenly residents sang new songs with new melodies which had never been heard or sung before.
How might it affect your life, if you understand that yourself as well as those around you are in the midst of your respective stories? Surely you would quickly see that no life is truly boring; unexamined perhaps, but never boring.
Who knows but that meaning of our life is hidden in our stories.